Debbie Reynolds and daughter Carrie. |
Debbie Reynolds, showbiz’ ultimate sweetheart, lived a dramatic life and made an equally dramatic exit on December 28, 2016 a day after daughter Carrie Fisher died at age 60. After the initial avalanche of stories on Debbie and Carrie Fisher, I wanted to read about Debbie Reynolds’ glory days as a movie star. So, I borrowed her two memoirs from the library, My Life and Unsinkable.
I
had passed on her first autobiography when came out almost two decades ago. For
one, I was always on Team Liz. If you have to ask Liz who, you’re reading the
wrong blog! Also, Debbie’s memoir was titled My Life, a classic cliché show biz bio title—code for no dirt. The
super-retouched cover photo was another red flag for star-filter stories
inside.
Debbie plugging Debbie! |
“Don’t
judge a book by its cover” turned out to be the case with Debbie’s tome.
Reynolds’ soap opera life is told straightforwardly, with the help of
ghostwriter David Patrick Columbia, blog maestro of the nifty New York Social Diary.
Is
it a tell-all? Just as daughter Carrie Fisher characterizes Debbie’s second
memoir, Unsinkable, as a “tell-some,”
so is My Life. Reynolds is a woman
and a star of her era. What she chooses to discuss is direct and the stuff that
she leaves out falls under the category of none of your business. Debbie
Reynolds was never a wallflower, nor a “wallower.”
Backstory:
I liked Debbie better as I grew older than my growing up years. In the ‘70s
& ‘80s, Reynolds was already that fizzy showbizzy personality in sequined slit
gowns, platinum slathered frosting wigs, and kewpie doll makeup. Her youthful
image didn’t endear me, either. Debbie Reynolds on the afternoon movies always meant
nostalgic musicals, with Debbie hyper and sugary sweet. Why were Hollywood’s wholesome
blondes perkiness personified, like Betty Hutton, Doris Day, Sandra Dee, Connie
Stevens, and Debbie, I wondered. On talk shows, Reynolds was always “on,” and
came off like a phony for the “good old days” of Hollywood.
Debbie loved to perform & had exes' debts to pay! |
Though
Reynolds had mixed feelings at the time, I thought Debbie was a good sport when
daughter Carrie satirized their relationship in 1990’s fictionalized Postcards from the Edge. I liked Debbie
when she tweaked her sweetheart image with tartness in Albert Brooks’ Mother. The ‘90s were the first time
Debbie Reynolds seemed like a real person to me, and not an aging Chatty Cathy
Doll. The more I read about her, I empathized with Reynolds endless rounds of
tribulations and admired her for surviving with sass.
What’s
amazing about Debbie’s My Life and Unsinkable is not great writing or storytelling,
but the long-lasting career and cray-cray life. Reynolds grew up in El Paso,
Texas, raised by tough parents, with an especially steely Mom. Once they moved
to California, Reynolds’ star was quickly on the rise at MGM, just as the
studio’s was beginning to dim. Ironically, Debbie became a bonafide movie star
in Singin’ in the Rain at 19, the
same age daughter Carrie became Princess Leia in Star Wars. When Reynolds married teen idol crooner Eddie Fisher, they
became America’s sweethearts. After three years together and two children,
Eddie famously left Debbie for her MGM pal and his idol Mike Todd’s widow,
Elizabeth Taylor.
Aba Daba Honeymoon! If only Debbie's marriages were as cheery! |
Debbie’s
second marriage to shoe tycoon Harry Karl ended when she found out that he not
only blew through his fortune, but hers, too. My Life ends on a happy note when Debbie marries rich businessman
Richard Hamlett—revealed as a sociopathic con artist in her followup memoir, Unsinkable. In both books, Debbie seems
to be a magnet for mismanagement and rip-offs, from asshole husbands to business
associates. When Debbie’s marriage to Karl ended, there was a point where
Reynolds was reduced to sleeping in her car!
Tammy was Debbie's #1 hit & Eddie Fisher was pissy about it! |
Reynolds
paid off his debts—that were unfortunately in both their names. A later Las
Vegas hotel venture went belly-up, thanks to her crooked last husband. Debbie
Reynolds worked like a rented mule from age 40 until she was nearly 70, paying
off debts from two loser husbands. Reynolds’ dream of a Hollywood museum for
her vast movie memorabilia faded, too…though its auction a few years ago finally
brought her some millions back.
'The Singing Nun.' Bet there were times when Debbie wished it true! |
In
between all this, the pages fly by as Debbie dealt with her own issues: keeping
Debbie Reynolds the performer relevant throughout the decades; aging parents
and growing older herself; raising her kids in showbiz; and especially,
daughter Carrie Fisher’s many emotional ups and downs.
How
did Debbie survive all this? Reynolds credits her strict upbringing, strong faith,
good humor and health, and children Carrie and Todd, for getting through all
this, and most of all, putting one high-heeled foot in front of the other.
Despite
fame and fortune, I found it fascinating that MGM girls Debbie Reynolds and
Elizabeth Taylor were essentially women of their era. Debbie thought she’d be a
movie star a few years and then get married, start a family, and become a gym
teacher—seriously! Fellow starlet Elizabeth Taylor just wanted to quit movies
and marry a “big, strong guy who paid all the bills.” Yes, this was the ‘50s,
folks. Ultimately, both women worked well into their older years, and basically
supported themselves—and more than a few husbands!
Carrie once suggested Debbie title her first memoir "Singin' in the Pain!" |
Debbie Reynolds, at the peak of her movie stardom! |
In
both books, Debbie’s direct about people who’ve disappointed her, but her
dislikes are not dwelled on. Reynolds freely admits Gene Kelly was tough to
work with, but ultimately worth it. Other stars or directors who were unkind or
disloyal are dealt with pithy humor. The only exception is first ex-hubby Eddie
Fisher. After reading Debbie’s side of the story, it confirmed Fisher as one of
a long line of Hollywood Peter Pans, oblivious to the damage they did their
families, such as Tony Curtis or Ryan O’ Neal.
Oh, yeah...there was that little Liz/Eddie/Debbie scandal that made Angelina/Brad/Jen look like a nursery school tussle! |
Unsinkable,
written 15 years later, picks up where the first memoir leaves off. The ongoing
Reynolds saga shows Debbie less invested in being Hollywood’s perennial good
girl. Reynolds became bawdier and sharp-tongued over the years. Debbie also
writes candidly of making up with Elizabeth, and coming to terms with problem
child Carrie.
Read about Liz & Debbie's escape from NYC after 9/11! |
Hollywood's most famous Girl Scout! |
My Life
and Unsinkable are both highly
entertaining reads about one of Hollywood’s true class acts. Debbie Reynolds is
gone, but her story and screen performances live on.
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page.
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Fantastic article, Rick, and I feel the same way you do about Debbie's film roles...pure treacle all the way. Tried to watch The Singing Nun a few months ago but just couldn't stomach it...the only film of hers I own is Singin in the Rain. But I did, like you, enjoy her in Mother with Albert Brooks and as Kevin Kline's mom in In and Out, and on Will and Grace. The female Mickey Rooney---the perfect way to characterize her appeal!
ReplyDeleteAnother great article on your wonderful blog, Rick!
- Chris
Thank you Rick, for remembering the late great Debbie Reynolds as we sadly approach the anniversary of her passing. Like you, I was never a big fan until I was invited to see her perform live, sometime in the mid-90s. She was the hardest working woman in show biz, and we had a blast! Entertaining as could be, she sang, danced, told stories, did impressions and after all that, was delighted to meet her fans at stage door. I realized then that Miss Debbie Reynolds was the living embodiment of "a real trouper" and a great star.
ReplyDeleteAs I became older, I came to appreciate her versatility and gutsy spirit! I also wrote about 'Bright Lights' on my blog...check it out!
DeleteAnd thanks for writing,
Rick
I always admired Debbie's guts and tenacity. Her wonderfully nuanced performance in "The Catered Affair" is well worth seeing. I also enjoy her sassy teenager in "Susan Slept Here". It's a shame Hollywood didn't give her more dramatic roles in her younger years. I know George Cukor tested (and tested) her for the lead in "The Actress" but ultimately handed it to Jean Simmons. Good as Simmons is, Reynolds being an American would have brought something to that role.
ReplyDeleteDebbie was a bit like Mickey Rooney, she could do a bit of everything! Reynolds definitely got typecast (and played into it when it was to her advantage.) And yes, Debbie as the girl next door would have been great in The Actress! Thanks, Shawn!
DeleteHey Shawn, if you're not following my film page on FB, here it is! https://www.facebook.com/groups/178488909366865/
DeleteAs Carrie Fisher said, "When Mike Todd died, Eddie flew to Elizabeth's side. Eventually he made it around to her front."
ReplyDeleteCarrie has a sharp wit! Cheers : ) Rick
DeleteVery nice and deserving tribute to perhaps one the last of the MGM stars. I too wasn't a huge Debbie fan but in time I grew to like her. Her sense of humor, gutzyness and carry on became so appealing. She truly was a survivor. The iconic photo shown up above with Liz, Eddie and Debbie will forever be burned in everyone's minds who remembers the scandal. If a picture could tell a thousand words....Beautiful Elizabeth Taylor dressed in ruby and diamonds looking off while Eddie Fisher is just staring her down just tells you who he really wanted and poor Debbie Reynolds despite still being adorable seems to be in a clueless daze somewhat out of it.
ReplyDeleteThe Debbie and Carrie demise made me think of my own mother and my age...sigh!
ReplyDeleteBTW, follow my blog and you will alerted when I post something new. Taking advantage of summer and writing ahead a bit!
Cheers, Rick
Sounds good Rick. Thank you! Look forward more reviews. This is a terrific site!
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As always, I enjoyed your column very much. I always appreciated DR's talent but her movies? that's another thing. I just remembered Debbie's role as Liberace's mother in Behind the Candelabra."I vin! I vin"! when she scored on Lee's home slot machine. She was unrecognizable in the role but she sure got my attention!!
ReplyDeleteHi, I think Debbie was very versatile, and I need to check her out in "The Catered Affair," which was a more realistic character than she typically played. Perky doesn't do a lot for me! Cheers, Rick
DeleteHi Rick,
ReplyDeleteIf you're on Team Liz, then no doubt you've read William Mann's biography of her, published about 10-12 years ago or so, where he _almost_ outs Reynolds. Of course people will protest, but it's worth noting that she never tried to sue to stop the publication of his book, especially considering the many sources he cited.
As for her acting ability, I think she could've been FAR, FAR better had she let down some of her guard. I saw an interview with her done around 2013 or so, where she momentarily breaks down in tears -- actually showing the vulnerability she worked so hard to hide. Had she done that in a film, she'd have been at least nominated for an Oscar.
Hi Danny, I've read the rumors and it wouldn't shock me if she was, as Debbie never seemed to really be in love with her husbands. A lot of stars are slaves to their studio images, even decades later. I liked Debbie when she was real, not perky. Thanks for your great comments, Rick
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